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Is sitting the new smoking?

Since January 21st, 2011, I’ve been opting to stand at work instead of sitting in my usual cubical.

Why? Don’t the new generation sit too much these days? We sit at work, we sit when we eat, we sit watching our TVs, we sit in the car, we sit during social events, etc.

Prolonged sitting is bad for your health. Scientist and medical experts believed that sitting is not great for you and your brain. I’m not saying that sitting will kill us but research shows that long bouts of sitting causes serious physiological responses related to chronic disease and a shortened life span. The University of Queensland found that people who stood up frequently had lower levels of C-reactive protein (a marker for blood fat). They also had smaller waistlines. It was the frequency of standing not the duration that counted.

One study found that a woman’s risk of developing metabolic syndrome increased 26% for every extra hour of sitting. Prolonged sitting in an upright position can strain your back resulting in chronic pain. Blood clots are another risk of being inactive. None of this is good for your brain.

Periods of standing throughout the day can improve circulation, muscle tone, and vitality. Standing up benefits the lean and overweight alike. Standing up frequently keeps blood flowing free to your head. So the better the heart functions, the better your brain works.

I’ll leave you with a video that shows you how bad sitting does to our health and also an infographic recently created by http://www.medicalbillingandcoding.org/

[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AX4EaslPW0w]

2 simple ingredients for a long lasting relationship

Humans is on a constant change. It can be drastic or mild but we will not stop changing.

The person you fell in love with years, months, weeks ago might not be the person you fell in love with in the first place. It’s not their fault, it’s not your fault. It’s only human nature. We don’t stop growing, therefore our brain never stops learning. Each of us perceived the World as we want it to at different stages of our lives.

So, how on this God’s green Earth are we able to stay in sync with our loved ones? Communication. Any couple who fails to do so will end up in flames. I might only eat red apples today but you cannot assume that I’ll not switch to green apples after one fine day. It’s important to update your lover what new discoveries you have in life that you wish to pursue. Always work hard to be on the same page.

It doesn’t stop at communication though. Listening plays a role in this picture. Telling your lover what you want will not go well if you don’t bother listening to what your lover wants. A relationship will quickly wither down to complains, complains and complains only. Giving time for your lover to express their feelings might not be a simple matter. You might be willingly and immediately pouring out how your heart feels from time to time but your other half might be reluctant to share or change. So take time to listen to their inner struggles.

On a different note. It’s the royal wedding of Prince William & Catherine Middleton now. I wish them for a happily ever after marriage. You and I are all invited. Head on to the royal channel!

http://www.youtube.com/theroyalchannel

Embarrassing Moments: Groom faceoff

Exactly 2 years ago, I was at my friends wedding. A dear friend’s wedding which I’ve known since primary school. Ever since she moved to KL, she has been dating this guy which I’ve not seen till the wedding day itself.

I arrived on time at the wedding. Walk towards the reception and my friend saw me. I greeted and congratulate her and asked her to introduce her husband. He was busy entertaining guests and when he turned around to greet me. We’re both stunned for a moment. I was dressed up way better than he did on his wedding day.

I immediately walked to my table after shaking hands with him. My friends on the table were shocked at the way I dressed up for the wedding too!

And no, I ain’t gonna put any pictures to further embarrass him and my friend.

Lucky to be us, those with water taps.

I used to be guilty for leaving the water tap running while brushing my teeth. I didn’t think of it as wasting water. After all it’s only for a mere few minutes right? No, I stop doing that. I stop because of a story I heard.

A story of a rich couple, who can have everything the way they wanted. The husband is guilty for leaving the water tap running whenever he brushes his teeth. His wife would stand next to him while he brushes his teeth. Every morning and before bed, he brushes his teeth with his usual habit of leaving the water tap running, she would then turn it off. He was furious, but every time he turns it back on, his wife would turn it off. He couldn’t stand it but had no choice but to continue brushing with her wife’s hand on the water tap. Surprisingly, after a month of training, he automatically turns off the water tap whenever he starts brushing his teeth.

So please, for everyone who is still guilty of this behavior. Please stop!

“Replace your bad habits with good habits.”

What is on every guy’s mind?

I’m gonna tell the brutal truth about men.

We are horny all the time. 24/7.

The only thing that differentiates us men from one another is the level of hornyness we show to you girls. No matter how innocent a guy is, they are horny. It’s just that they tend not to show or express it. Hence, we have a perception that he’s innocent.

Any straight guy with a right mind would seriously wanna get it on with you. So ladies, please, don’t feel uncomfortable or surprised if that’s all you find us thinking about. It’s only natural, learn to tame it.

“Men really do just wanna get in your pants.”

Walk With Me [Poem]

You have chosen me from the rest,
it’s a sign of a different case.
Like the bright Sun up in your sky,
I am not your average guy.

Every moment you’re in doubt,
please don’t put your judgments out.
Have a talk, a chat, a dialogue,
cause I want to finish this walk.

Promise that you will stay with me,
through black coffee, white tea or me.
we have much to paint in every town,
ain’t it a shame if you’re not around.

“Knowing that You’re there for me makes times passes by so much more beautifully. Always.”

Want No One But You

Lost & puzzled, I am for 9 long years,
shed I have, countless, careless tears.
After all these pointless pairs,
today He has answered my prayers.

He has brought the light to shine,
my body, heart & soul align.
I thank Thee for showing such divine,
the lady in you so lovely and kind.

This is different, now that you’ve appeared,
I want to stand by you without fear.
There’s only one reason He brought us here,
please be my one and only precious dear.

“None of us should wither without each other, we should only compliment, prosper and grow stronger with each other.”

Life At Leaderonomics: Things I admire about you…

At Leaderonomics, we have dedicated a session to teach one another with whatever expertise we have. So last Friday we were given a session by Eric Lau on Trust & Recognition.

At the end of the session we were all asked to answer a few questions in a card and present it to one another. This is what I got.

JAMES.IE :)
Things I admire about you!
a. Passion b. Cheerfulness C. Teachable/humble

Because…
a. Passionate about what you believe in & not ashamed to share it with the world. eg. YEP promo at STAR Edu fair, you engage ppl & make sure they hear you.
b. Always fun to be with, even in stressful situations. Your cheer spreads, esp at camps!
c. eg. When I tell you stuff at camps. You listen, although I’m younger than you . =P

[picture taken during our company Hat Day]