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Girls are stupid. Guys are good at lying.

They always say that girls are better liars. I do agree to a certain point but let’s leave that argument for another post.

The situation here is about stories you’ve heard about your girl friends. You damn well know that whoever your girl friend is dating is a bad apple. You’ve warned her numerous times about his flowery, flirtatious, cheating words. But what does your girl friend do? She is just stupid. She chose to believe whatever this guy promises her. Not once, not twice but till the day her heart crushes into millions of pieces till she can’t go in that relationship anymore.

I can’t blame the girl, really. Guys are just too good at lying and girls are just stupid enough to believe. This equation is the root of all miserable relationships you’ve been trying to save your girl friends from.

Girls believe in hope. The hope that guys gave. Just that the ‘hope’ we are referring to here are lies.

There’s no genius way to snap her out of this stupidity state. Often times you just have to let them fall, fall so hard that they wake up from their stupidity and make sure you’re there to lift them up when needed.

“Guys are just too good at lying and girls are just stupid enough to believe.”

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Evil: Women 1, Men 0

Before you label me as being sexist, do hear me out first.

Men are simple beings. They are direct, they don’t give clues or hints. They will tell you the story as it is.

On the flip side…

Women are complex beings. Their heart is as deep as the ocean. Their mind is as vast as the universe. They will tell you a story with multiple endings for you to guess.

So what brings me to the title is because of some dysfunctional family stories I’ve studied. Couples who get into nasty arguments can lead a men who is being all muscles to make a despicable move by hitting the lady. Often times the muscles don’t hold back and it leads to disgusting bruises and scars. You see, that’s men.

Women, when it comes to muscles, will definitely lose out in a straight on battle of punches. So women turn to their heart & mind to gather the force. They release psychological warfare towards the measly men. Women will tired men down mentally, for days, weeks, months, years…

Hence, my title.

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2 simple ingredients for a long lasting relationship

Humans is on a constant change. It can be drastic or mild but we will not stop changing.

The person you fell in love with years, months, weeks ago might not be the person you fell in love with in the first place. It’s not their fault, it’s not your fault. It’s only human nature. We don’t stop growing, therefore our brain never stops learning. Each of us perceived the World as we want it to at different stages of our lives.

So, how on this God’s green Earth are we able to stay in sync with our loved ones? Communication. Any couple who fails to do so will end up in flames. I might only eat red apples today but you cannot assume that I’ll not switch to green apples after one fine day. It’s important to update your lover what new discoveries you have in life that you wish to pursue. Always work hard to be on the same page.

It doesn’t stop at communication though. Listening plays a role in this picture. Telling your lover what you want will not go well if you don’t bother listening to what your lover wants. A relationship will quickly wither down to complains, complains and complains only. Giving time for your lover to express their feelings might not be a simple matter. You might be willingly and immediately pouring out how your heart feels from time to time but your other half might be reluctant to share or change. So take time to listen to their inner struggles.

On a different note. It’s the royal wedding of Prince William & Catherine Middleton now. I wish them for a happily ever after marriage. You and I are all invited. Head on to the royal channel!

http://www.youtube.com/theroyalchannel

What is on every guy’s mind?

I’m gonna tell the brutal truth about men.

We are horny all the time. 24/7.

The only thing that differentiates us men from one another is the level of hornyness we show to you girls. No matter how innocent a guy is, they are horny. It’s just that they tend not to show or express it. Hence, we have a perception that he’s innocent.

Any straight guy with a right mind would seriously wanna get it on with you. So ladies, please, don’t feel uncomfortable or surprised if that’s all you find us thinking about. It’s only natural, learn to tame it.

“Men really do just wanna get in your pants.”

Walk With Me [Poem]

You have chosen me from the rest,
it’s a sign of a different case.
Like the bright Sun up in your sky,
I am not your average guy.

Every moment you’re in doubt,
please don’t put your judgments out.
Have a talk, a chat, a dialogue,
cause I want to finish this walk.

Promise that you will stay with me,
through black coffee, white tea or me.
we have much to paint in every town,
ain’t it a shame if you’re not around.

“Knowing that You’re there for me makes times passes by so much more beautifully. Always.”

Want No One But You

Lost & puzzled, I am for 9 long years,
shed I have, countless, careless tears.
After all these pointless pairs,
today He has answered my prayers.

He has brought the light to shine,
my body, heart & soul align.
I thank Thee for showing such divine,
the lady in you so lovely and kind.

This is different, now that you’ve appeared,
I want to stand by you without fear.
There’s only one reason He brought us here,
please be my one and only precious dear.

“None of us should wither without each other, we should only compliment, prosper and grow stronger with each other.”

My Eternal Bliss

Met have I not but saw her in picture,
fair she was with looks so divine pure.
Clouds my heart but I was young & unsure,
little did I know, she had me captured.

Knowing her down the years was luck in play,
defined my reason to live everyday.
Shattered it did to find she’s not to stay,
feelings cocooned just waiting to decay.

Time was gracious, years ticked for only 5,
11 hours later she will arrive.
Swiftly as fast as wheels can turn I drive,
happiest four days with her footsteps in my life.

She’s far greater than Cuthbert or Jolie,
Spins my world & lights my day endlessly.
5,000 miles I’ll swim to her gladly,
to seek for her love before heavenly.

Time was gracious yet again, I counted 3,
her presence brings peace, I tear & thank Thee.
Confess my epic love she let me be,
stop have I, to search for the flawless key.

Her thoughts voiced out indeed I am lucky,
to have her inked my empty history.
Smother I did, unintentionally,
You will always be my eternal bliss.

“Still I’ll be darn to have not date you in this lifetime.”

Tell Me Is This Love

Sitting in the train heading home from work sure makes my mind wander.

Books aplenty I have read,
Teachings of all I have learn,
Wise words of old I have Listened,
Still clueless in what I am feeling.

A growl deep in my heart,
A face I could never forget,
A bliss without comparison,
What is it that I am feeling.

Bitters my heart when she parts,
Silent screams echoing my ears,
Tried to wipe but there’s no tears,
Tell me is this love?

Last Kiss

Knowing you in this life time was like heaven sent.
Meeting you at the oddest place was like fate.
Learning more about you was like my blessing.
What say you when you decided to leave me cold?

Not being able to love you was like a puzzle.
Not knowing what I did wrong was so unfair.
Not having you was like hell.
What say you when I decided to give up hope?

Meeting you again is like a dream to me.
Seeing your smile is like sunshine for my days.
Kissing you is like heaven on earth.
What say you when my madness for you is gone?

“Everything in this World has a shelf life. Figure our your shelf life.”