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Accidental Porn-stars

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Accidental Porn-stars – Nude pictures/videos of individuals expose on the internet without individual’s consent

Case #1
If you’re being filmed secretly then I feel sorry for you. (I blame you slightly to not see this coming, your ex can burn in hell.)

Case #2
You agree to it and you find it thrilling. Sorry ladies & gentlemen. Filming was designed to be shown and you asked for it.

The tremendous spike in recent accidental porn-stars are also what technology advancement has brought us into. We would’ve think twice before snapping ourselves nude because you damn well know that the photo studio where you take your film to develop keeps at least 2 copies. These days we can view it on a computer till someone decides to leak it out to the world through the wonderful technologies human has built.

Welcome to the digital world and if you’ve agree to any filming activities of your scandalous nights, you just might be another victim soon. Just hope it doesn’t land in my inbox.

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Kissing is a colour

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When was the last time you actually kissed someone? Maybe it be a sloppy French kiss or just a peck on the cheek. For those of you who are attached then it might be just few hours ago or something. If not, do it when you see him/her later.

Colour… it comes in different tones and shades. Just like how kisses comes in different shapes and sizes… oh, different taste too! You must be thinking that I’ve most probably kissed a hell lot of people to actually come up with this topic. Well, I’m not sure how many is consider many but I think it’s enough for me to say ‘Kissing is a Colour’.

I send out my kisses to all my dearies. Yes only to my dearies. I don’t go around and plant my lips on someone else cheek or lips for no reason. I think a peck on the cheek is just a sweet gesture to say hello, thank you, you’re sweet, goodbye and et cetera. A kiss on the lips brings kissing to a whole different level. It can be both a simple gesture or a complicated one. Simple as in hi my love and bye my love, complicated as in you know I want you or an opener to a more erotic invitation. French kissing to me is strictly for make out purposes. If you don’t mind how the viewers would judge you then go ahead. It’s your love.

Who do I kiss? My lovers of course. Or my dearies. Who are these dearies you might ask. They are the people who I think has made an impact in my life or a close friend since long time ago or just the next door neighbour who I have not seen in awhile. No intimate or French kisses for those who are not my lovers. That would render my lover just as cheap as my dearies.

I had a series of both shocking and wonderful surprises last weekend. The wonderful one is someone caught me partying and she nonchalantly kissed me on my lips as we pass each other by. Shocking one would be seeing another girl getting kissed around by 3 guys. I believe it’s French too!

That is where I would draw the line damn thick. Kissing someone with nice etiquette is definitely a +1 for me but if I by any chance get kiss by the shocking girl I’ve said earlier. That’s a -1 for me!

Lastly, NO is the answer if you’re thinking funny thoughts of putting a male in the position of who I consider my deary.

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Dating The Untouchables (for men)

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  • Women like power. Show your guts and self-confidence. Someone has to be able to protect her when she is like the only flower among the bees.
  • Women like charisma. If you can make a woman laugh, you probably can make her do anything. They wouldn’t want someone who is just good-looking without a sense of humour.
  • Women like conversations. Stop starring at her but instead talk to her. They most probably get hit on very often to be sleep with. Think different.
  • Women like respect. Be cool, don’t drool. Respect her as a woman not as a sex object. Be a gentleman.
  • Women like praises. Tell her that you admire her. Not only just the looks but her. Compliment them on the most subtle actions. Like when she twitch her lips.
  • Women like observations. Women know themselves. Never ignore her looks. Say how matching her scarf is with her dress.
  • Women like IQ. As much as you want to sleep with her, she doesn’t. They prefer someone who will help them grow.
  • Women like freedom. Trust her as much as you want her to trust you. It’s common for her to get pick up and hit on most of the time. Be nice to the guy and he will be nice to you. Jealous, don’t be.
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So jealous!

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Ask yourself, why do you have to hate someone even he or she did not lay a finger or say a word to you in the beginning? Jealous? This can be applied into lots of situations.

For example : You didn’t like your new colleague because he gets more attention from your boss. You grew to hate him when you realize that he’s even better than you in anything. Worst still, he’s scoring with your girl!

Ok, that might be the worst situation anyone could’ve been in. I’m sure you would be swearing his ass off while throwing darts on his photo. Now here, let me give you another scope. Why don’t you try to turn that hatred off and try to get to know him. Maybe if you two get along, both of you might reach higher standards in work and he won’t probably score with your girl.

  • Fear. Jealousy is a form of fear too. You were afraid of the situation going out of hand. It’s easier when you allow yourself to stop worrying. (He most probably ain’t scoring with your girl.)
  • Trust. This is an important factor to take note. If you can’t trust yourself, certainly you cannot trust others. Remember, actions speak louder than words. Don’t say you trust your partners and still showing signs that you’re jealous.
  • Weak. When you’re jealous, you’re just showing them your weakness. You just gave them a good point to attack your vulnerability till you drop yourself.
  • Power. People who are jealous are often seeking for power. Power gives you great form of command and control over another person. Don’t be such a jerk off.

Jealousy brings no joy. Think of it as a butterfly in your hand. The more jealousy you have the harder you squeeze. Let your jealousy subside and you start letting it flutter around you with grace.

“Ain’t worth the hassle being jealous.”

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Whoopsie… ex-files.

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I’ve never gotten like super close with any of my ex. And damn well no intimacy after that. No intentions whatsoever. You see… the reason they are known as ex is because you draw a big X over their name. Indicating it’s broken, unusable. So look forward, don’t turn back and bite that sour fruit again. It’s so yesterday!

But then sometimes some people tend to do it anyway. So here are some situations and ways I think you should deal with it.

  • The coincidence. Oh yeah. It’s a beautiful day. With the striking sun out of sight and breezy breeze brushing your face. Nothing else could go wrong… something caught your eye. Your ex-girl/boyfriend is walking towards you with a new soul mate. Now, be nice! Act like you’re pleased to meet the other half even though it hurts. You would look bad if you showed any sign that you’re still upset over the whole thing. Don’t talk for too long and make sure you say how nice it is to meet up with them both and then excuse yourself. Focus, focus… eye on a better half for yourself and let them turn green.
  • The bed scene. Yes, it was an accident… hit me baby one more time! You did tell yourself over and over again not to cross that line but some how it happened. Trust me… either one of you would be thinking that it’s just a casual sex session. So what I say is. Keep yourself occupied with something else. This is a bad habit to keep up with.
  • The sound of wedding bells. You picked up your phone nonchalantly thinking that someone nice is calling you. It’s your ex-girl/boyfriend’s number. You answered it hoping that it should be no big of a deal. To your surprise,your ex is getting married. Guess what, you’re on the invitation list. Hmm… if the event brings bitterness to you then I guess you should skip the wedding and go out with your friends to forget about the whole event. Only show up if you’re totally over it and you’re there to bless your ex.
  • I want you back. Oooo… sounds like a bliss? Think again. Stand firm on your ground. Re-check his/her quality. Has he/she become a better self? Why it didn’t work out before and would it work this time? Don’t accept just because you’re lonely, you needed a date or hearing I love you from him/her. Getting a second chance is something for him/her to work for. So work his/her ass off to get you back.

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Get up and be loved once again!

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This particular entry is specially written for those who are single or still not over with their recent sorrows. Stop weeping, put on that 100% confident outfit of yours, get a decent aura, say hi to the person in the mirror and get your ass back up in the field and play ball! If you’re really hopeless and lost, here I bundled 20 ways to heat up the season for either a red-hot fling or a long-lasting love. Godspeed!

  1. Recruit the new. A party or a night out would be fine. You need to get to know someone new through your friends. Also it’s much safer to date your friend’s friend.
  2. Fun is all you need. Go have a blast. When you’re not out in the wild with the thoughts of hunting something down, you might just be the hunted.
  3. Be occupied. Make sure your calender is pack with events! The more you do, the more chances you can grab hold of.
  4. Go dateless. You don’t need a date to go movies, beach party, bbq, house party and so on. Spin your spider webs. The special person might just get caught.
  5. Be yourself. Get comfortable. Relax and find inner peace. Love yourself and others will start loving you.
  6. Skip the bar. You don’t always have to be at a bar to get picked up. Try Starbucks or Coffee Bean for a change. The bookstore is another good choice too.
  7. Get connected. Get plug onto the world wide web. Start instant messages, e-mails and any means of communication.
  8. Read. Self-help books can help a lot in this area. Especially when you have no one to turn to, to ask for help.
  9. Make friends. Be bold. Try to make new friends and expand your circle of life.
  10. Don’t be shy. Guys or girls. It’s the 21st century! If you think that someone is good enough for you. Make it happen. Don’t let it pass you by like a dream.
  11. Make that change. Look into the mirror. Tell that person in the mirror to make that change. Be active in the society around you. You feel much better doing something better than nothing.
  12. A perfect plan. Plot the whole date out. Use all the right moves. Time, place and attitude.
  13. Another shot. Recruit your old friends. Those who are still single. Reach out for them and have a pot luck or sorts. There might be something that wasn’t there before.
  14. Pet-sit. Offer a helping hand if your friends needed you to take care of their flurry balls. Pets can be a good companion. They offer unconditional love.
  15. Go with blind dates. Don’t worry. This isn’t the last resort. Take all the chances you can find. Your friends just might be right with the perfect soul mate for you.
  16. Advertisements. This is fun. Post your personal details and stuff on the nearby store or a small corner on the papers or mags. Don’t think of it as cheap. I dare you to!
  17. Be a member. Find something you like and register as a member. The new activity you just picked up is gonna help you meet someone new this season.
  18. Search at the right places. If you’re looking for a fling, most probably a bar. A commited one, try the bookstore or the library instead. You can go by interest too. Like musicians can be found in music festivals. Church is also another great place.
  19. Go shop. Browse along the malls and you’ll get to know interesting people that might just be doing what you’re doing.
  20. Make a move. DO NOT WAIT!

“Keep your options open.”

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You were strong.

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Time after time, I’ve always heard about the human kind complaining that they cannot go on after any particular separation. To me… that’s bullshit! We are known as human beings, the utmost living creature created by God in the image of Himself. We are the only living creature that has got the power to adapt, think and feel.

So here comes the story… Guy and girl gets together. They love each other. One day, guy and girl decided to call it quits. Let’s say the guy is a jerk. (Usually we are) Girl gets heartbroken badly. Cried for countless nights and still couldn’t get over with it. None of the remedy she tried could help herself.
Now here I would like to stress that, situations like this is bullshit! We were alone. We were not attached. Don’t tell me that someone is gonna come into your life and leave with a big hole in your heart. Yeah, I know it hurts but we can get over it. There will be a hole, but we just have to learn to deal with it. Patch things up and go on with life. Think about the days you were single and you lived your life happily without even needing the other half. Why? How? The days are still there but it’s you who want to think that it’s the end of the world. We humans can live alone normally, healthily.

But you’ll say it’s love. Yes, I know it’s love… the mumbo jumbo feeling and stuff. But think twice. It’s call loved. (past tense, mind you) So the situation has changed. If you’re still complaining then it’s just a habit to be with the other half. How about getting use to another situation for a change. A way better situation that is gonna make you whole again.

Seriously, don’t let me look down on you. I’ve been in love and out of love. It’s not that big of a deal. Yeah, you might say that I’m just heartless or I’ve got friends there to go through with me. But does it really help? Can friends really help you when you still have to climb onto your bed at night alone and start thinking of all the good times and start sobbing again? They can talk to you the whole day but when the night comes you’re all alone again. It’s just an excuse we give ourselves. Live for yourself! You build your own future and destroys your own future if you may. Claim back your independence right from this very second. Life is full of chances and opportunities, and it’s up for us to learn to grab them.

“Falling in and out of love is part of growing up. It makes us stronger.”

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What I think about dating an older woman.

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Not every guy gets a chance to date someone older than them. Heck most are very much against the idea of dating someone older than them. You, my friend are missing out.

Dating someone older than you also means they are much more mature. They are usually in control of their own lives. Doing whatever they please. These are the ladies that will not claim that they need to be back by 12 midnight before their chariot turns back into a pumpkin. They have an opinion, unlike girls below 20s. I would also add in that there are much more reasonable. At least that’s what I think at my age now.

And being older… they are more caring. I should say this might be traits of being a mom but it’s all good. It seriously comforts you when times are rough. Who wouldn’t like a strong women right? Strong also means that, having her own career, financially independent, groovy apartment with a walk-in wardrobe and huge social network! Guys… I know most of the time you might feel inferior with all these things but think about it. Isn’t it great to have such a fabulous woman? It can be a drive for you to work harder to succeed in life too!

Another note, being mature also brings sexier times in bed.

When there are pros in this situation, it also brings some cons.

Having that age gap in play, certain topics could make you seem like a kid. Growing up in a slight different era also means that you can’t really share the same sentiments. On the bright side, you’ll get to learn more from each other.

Things might be smooth between the both of you. But when friends and family comes into the limelight, things might sometimes get nasty. It’s no biggie, just something you need to learn and adapt instead of trying to change it.

The age gap also affects future topics about having kids. Keep it low for the first few months. If you’re serious about the relationship. Go ahead and bring up the b-word. Having a baby isn’t a game. It does show maturity in you but it carries more than just responsibility.

All and all, if you get to be Ashton Kutcher and have your hands on Demi Moore. By all means, marry her!

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You’re in love?

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Have you ever came across a person, opposite sex that is. A person who failed to make a big impact on the first sight, nor did he or she attracted you in anyway you could possibly think of. But… time showed the true colours. The true colours of the person. Suddenly the person started to glow with a special aura. A simple and innocent attractiveness that you thought wasn’t there before.

I’m not talking about that sudden stylish cool hunky look neither is that sudden sexy long red dress with a low slit where you can almost see her nipples. I’m talking about a person who has got a personality that shines. It shines so bright that it simply catches you easily and captivates you. Gradually, you’re awe by the sight of the person without you even knowing it. Your heart beats so fast that it starts to melt. Your brain is like a railway with millions of trains passing by. In short, you’re in love?

Seriously, I have no say to this. I’m confused myself too. But not giving a perception of my point of view, then there’s no point for this entry. Before I could really say something about it. You have to be clear of what love is.

What is love? For me… love… I consider it a highly dangerous substance. It makes people do stupid things and creates disaster in our hearts. Although most of the time it is wonderful and love may appear to save the world every now and then. As bad as it seems, we human still want to search for it. And I know of some people that could never live without love. Is it addictive? Is it that amazing? When does it hit and when does it bounce off? It comes like a tsunami, so high you’re drowned by it and leaves like a hurricane, so fast you never know what hit you.

I believe as far as personal traits might go. Love is always forgiving. Love is always caring. Love is always accepting. Love is always missing. Love is always giving. Love is always first.

If you think there’s a person in your life that is worth that much values. You’re in love.

“Love is part of growing up.”

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