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Whoopsie… ex-files.

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I’ve never gotten like super close with any of my ex. And damn well no intimacy after that. No intentions whatsoever. You see… the reason they are known as ex is because you draw a big X over their name. Indicating it’s broken, unusable. So look forward, don’t turn back and bite that sour fruit again. It’s so yesterday!

But then sometimes some people tend to do it anyway. So here are some situations and ways I think you should deal with it.

  • The coincidence. Oh yeah. It’s a beautiful day. With the striking sun out of sight and breezy breeze brushing your face. Nothing else could go wrong… something caught your eye. Your ex-girl/boyfriend is walking towards you with a new soul mate. Now, be nice! Act like you’re pleased to meet the other half even though it hurts. You would look bad if you showed any sign that you’re still upset over the whole thing. Don’t talk for too long and make sure you say how nice it is to meet up with them both and then excuse yourself. Focus, focus… eye on a better half for yourself and let them turn green.
  • The bed scene. Yes, it was an accident… hit me baby one more time! You did tell yourself over and over again not to cross that line but some how it happened. Trust me… either one of you would be thinking that it’s just a casual sex session. So what I say is. Keep yourself occupied with something else. This is a bad habit to keep up with.
  • The sound of wedding bells. You picked up your phone nonchalantly thinking that someone nice is calling you. It’s your ex-girl/boyfriend’s number. You answered it hoping that it should be no big of a deal. To your surprise,your ex is getting married. Guess what, you’re on the invitation list. Hmm… if the event brings bitterness to you then I guess you should skip the wedding and go out with your friends to forget about the whole event. Only show up if you’re totally over it and you’re there to bless your ex.
  • I want you back. Oooo… sounds like a bliss? Think again. Stand firm on your ground. Re-check his/her quality. Has he/she become a better self? Why it didn’t work out before and would it work this time? Don’t accept just because you’re lonely, you needed a date or hearing I love you from him/her. Getting a second chance is something for him/her to work for. So work his/her ass off to get you back.

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Get up and be loved once again!

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This particular entry is specially written for those who are single or still not over with their recent sorrows. Stop weeping, put on that 100% confident outfit of yours, get a decent aura, say hi to the person in the mirror and get your ass back up in the field and play ball! If you’re really hopeless and lost, here I bundled 20 ways to heat up the season for either a red-hot fling or a long-lasting love. Godspeed!

  1. Recruit the new. A party or a night out would be fine. You need to get to know someone new through your friends. Also it’s much safer to date your friend’s friend.
  2. Fun is all you need. Go have a blast. When you’re not out in the wild with the thoughts of hunting something down, you might just be the hunted.
  3. Be occupied. Make sure your calender is pack with events! The more you do, the more chances you can grab hold of.
  4. Go dateless. You don’t need a date to go movies, beach party, bbq, house party and so on. Spin your spider webs. The special person might just get caught.
  5. Be yourself. Get comfortable. Relax and find inner peace. Love yourself and others will start loving you.
  6. Skip the bar. You don’t always have to be at a bar to get picked up. Try Starbucks or Coffee Bean for a change. The bookstore is another good choice too.
  7. Get connected. Get plug onto the world wide web. Start instant messages, e-mails and any means of communication.
  8. Read. Self-help books can help a lot in this area. Especially when you have no one to turn to, to ask for help.
  9. Make friends. Be bold. Try to make new friends and expand your circle of life.
  10. Don’t be shy. Guys or girls. It’s the 21st century! If you think that someone is good enough for you. Make it happen. Don’t let it pass you by like a dream.
  11. Make that change. Look into the mirror. Tell that person in the mirror to make that change. Be active in the society around you. You feel much better doing something better than nothing.
  12. A perfect plan. Plot the whole date out. Use all the right moves. Time, place and attitude.
  13. Another shot. Recruit your old friends. Those who are still single. Reach out for them and have a pot luck or sorts. There might be something that wasn’t there before.
  14. Pet-sit. Offer a helping hand if your friends needed you to take care of their flurry balls. Pets can be a good companion. They offer unconditional love.
  15. Go with blind dates. Don’t worry. This isn’t the last resort. Take all the chances you can find. Your friends just might be right with the perfect soul mate for you.
  16. Advertisements. This is fun. Post your personal details and stuff on the nearby store or a small corner on the papers or mags. Don’t think of it as cheap. I dare you to!
  17. Be a member. Find something you like and register as a member. The new activity you just picked up is gonna help you meet someone new this season.
  18. Search at the right places. If you’re looking for a fling, most probably a bar. A commited one, try the bookstore or the library instead. You can go by interest too. Like musicians can be found in music festivals. Church is also another great place.
  19. Go shop. Browse along the malls and you’ll get to know interesting people that might just be doing what you’re doing.
  20. Make a move. DO NOT WAIT!

“Keep your options open.”

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What’s your kissing style?

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Who doesn’t like the idea of kissing? I love kisses. Be it just a peck, a long passionate kiss, a tongue teaser or Hershey’s kisses. After taking the kissing quiz. They’ve concluded that I’m a born romantic.

From what the article says. The great thing about being inherently romantic is that I actually enjoy kissing. I, being a born romantic is very lucky. My kisses provide a tender, wonderful way to stay connected with my partner. It is natural for me to have the instinct to kiss as a way to communicate love and affection. By reaching out in that manner, I continually strengthen the bond with my significant other. My relationships tend to benefit from seeking out opportunities to express my fondness. It’s a second-nature to me.

Take the quiz today and see what’s your kissing style!

And also here are some facts you might like to know:

  • Record romancing. The current record for the longest kiss is held by a New Jersey couple who kissed for a record 30 hours, 59 minutes, and 27 seconds on December 5, 2001, as part of a Valentine’s Day TV special.
  • Make-out workout. A passionate kiss uses up 6.4 calories per minute.
  • Oooh! Germs! During a kiss, as many as 278 colonies of bacteria are exchanged.
  • Road testing. The average American woman has kissed 79 men before she is married.
  • Sexiest screen smooches. According to a Gallup poll, the hottest kisses take place between Clark Gable and Vivien Leigh in Gone With The Wind.
  • You may kiss the bride. The nuptial kiss at the altar began during Roman times as a symbol of the spiritual union between bride and groom, who exchanged “the breath of life.”
  • Slip of the tongue. The term “French kiss” came into use in prudish America in 1923 as a slur on French culture, which was thought to be shockingly oversexed.
  • When in France. Don’t call it a French kiss at all. The proper, more titillating term: a “tongue kiss” or “soul kiss.”
  • Kissing cousins. Ninety percent of the people of the world engage in kisses on the lips, anthropologists say. Some other cultures, such as Eskimos, use the “smell kiss” — rubbing noses.
  • Lip smackeroos. A lipstick imprint of a kiss made by Mick Jagger’s mouth once sold for $1,600.–Jeannie Ralston

“Kissing is a sport.”

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In love?

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You know you’re so in love when…

  1. You pay extra attention to how you look before you see him/her.
  2. You have crush-like thoughts. (eg. “He/she’d will love this song!”)
  3. You would try to spend each second of the day with him/her.
  4. You want to hold him/her in your arms and freeze the moment.
  5. You tell him/her a lot about your daily life in extra details.
  6. You start conversations about relationships with him/her.
  7. You want to start something between the two of you but afraid of losing him/her if things go wrong.
  8. You would give up the whole world just for him/her.
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You were strong.

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Time after time, I’ve always heard about the human kind complaining that they cannot go on after any particular separation. To me… that’s bullshit! We are known as human beings, the utmost living creature created by God in the image of Himself. We are the only living creature that has got the power to adapt, think and feel.

So here comes the story… Guy and girl gets together. They love each other. One day, guy and girl decided to call it quits. Let’s say the guy is a jerk. (Usually we are) Girl gets heartbroken badly. Cried for countless nights and still couldn’t get over with it. None of the remedy she tried could help herself.
Now here I would like to stress that, situations like this is bullshit! We were alone. We were not attached. Don’t tell me that someone is gonna come into your life and leave with a big hole in your heart. Yeah, I know it hurts but we can get over it. There will be a hole, but we just have to learn to deal with it. Patch things up and go on with life. Think about the days you were single and you lived your life happily without even needing the other half. Why? How? The days are still there but it’s you who want to think that it’s the end of the world. We humans can live alone normally, healthily.

But you’ll say it’s love. Yes, I know it’s love… the mumbo jumbo feeling and stuff. But think twice. It’s call loved. (past tense, mind you) So the situation has changed. If you’re still complaining then it’s just a habit to be with the other half. How about getting use to another situation for a change. A way better situation that is gonna make you whole again.

Seriously, don’t let me look down on you. I’ve been in love and out of love. It’s not that big of a deal. Yeah, you might say that I’m just heartless or I’ve got friends there to go through with me. But does it really help? Can friends really help you when you still have to climb onto your bed at night alone and start thinking of all the good times and start sobbing again? They can talk to you the whole day but when the night comes you’re all alone again. It’s just an excuse we give ourselves. Live for yourself! You build your own future and destroys your own future if you may. Claim back your independence right from this very second. Life is full of chances and opportunities, and it’s up for us to learn to grab them.

“Falling in and out of love is part of growing up. It makes us stronger.”

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Life is good

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I find life so incomprehensible, inconceivable, incredible, unbelievable, unimaginable, unthinkable; extraordinary, phenomenal, rare, sensational, spectacular; singular, uncommon, unique, unusual, unwonted; conspicuous, notable, noticeable, outstanding, remarkable; impressive, striking; animating, energizing, enlightening, enlivening, exciting, galvanizing, invigorating, stimulating; alluring, attracting, attractive, beguiling, bewitching, captivating, charming, enchanting, entertaining, enthralling, fascinating, interesting… need I go on any further?

Seriously, I couldn’t love my life more than this! I thank God for all the things He has showed and given me. I feel so blessed. Yes, I have to admit there are times that I do feel sad and in fact it still attacks me once awhile… but despite all those sour moments. What God has offered these days is totally worth it!

I’m so so so blessed, blest, blissful, blithe, can’t complain, captivated, cheerful, chipper, chirpy, content, contented, convivial, delighted, ecstatic, elated, exultant, flying high, gay, glad, gleeful, gratified, hopped up, intoxicated, jolly, joyful, joyous, jubilant, laughing, light, lively, looking good, merry, mirthful, overjoyed, peaceful, peppy, perky, playful, pleasant, pleased, satisfied, sparkling, sunny, thrilled, tickled, tickled pink, up, upbeat!

“My life rocks!”

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Four days

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This is a phrase I took out from the movie Garden State and I think it reflects what happened in my life.

Movie : Garden State
Period : 01:32:49 –> 01:32:52
Script : You changed my life, and I’ve known you four days.

I would like to have a public opinion on this. Four days… how much can 96 earth hours change a person’s life? Has anyone out there ever experience a beautiful exciting impact onto your life after spending time with a person for four days or less? Can they actually do that?

I’ll shed some light on my personal experience. I didn’t exactly know this gal for four days only but we did spend four days together. We enjoyed each others company and we spend lots of time together painting the town red. She is one of the most delightful girl to talk to. I feel content just by talking to her. I adored her and her presence brings serenity. Well, this is part of our conversation. She said to me on the fourth day :

“I don’t think four days is enough for you to…”
– “To have feelings for you?”

I can’t really come out with a conclusion for that. I’m rather confused myself. It can just be an infatuation.

You see, life is so intriguing. There are so many wondrous ways to arouse the interest of oneself. And I believe it takes way less than 96 hours for that to happen.

“It’s amazing how a short period of time can alter a person.”

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Did I run away from it all?

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Betrayal is most probably the worst feeling in this World. When I found out the news, it hit me so hard like a bullet train. Anger and sadness all roll into my mind and nothing could keep me sane.

I decided to leave my room and have some fresh air outside. Once I shut the main door behind me, there was this adrenaline rush build up inside of  me waiting to be burst out of my veins. I took off the ledge of the staircase close to the speed of light. Out I go zooming pass the guard house and into the open road. I ran past the park, the swings, the basketball court, the countless cars parked by the road side that is such a common sight in Kuala Lumpur and still I didn’t stop.

Suddenly I felt like I’m running out of my own body, out of my own betrayed life, out of the mess, out of the anger & sadness. I stopped. I looked back. Did I run away from it all?

“Do whatever it takes to make yourself feel better.”

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June’s gone…

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First of all… I would like to thank the readers for my little online journal here. Thanks for your time!

I wanted to fill in more entries for July… but time just passes by so fast with just a blink of an eye. And there are so many awesome events that I just couldn’t find the time to nourish this little blog here.

There are like great BBQ where we’re trying to drown each other with alcohol. Luckily nobody really got drunk. But lots of people puked though.

There’s also another rat who we name Parry who came into the house and yes it died in a dreadful way. We first gave it alcohol then we tied it on the fence and waited till the morning comes. Before the morning even arrives it was already covered up with flies. Icky alright! Now all it has got left is only dry skin. I know it’s gross.. but it’s a rodent!

There is also a superb gal friend who flew in from overseas to pay Malaysia a visit. I have to say this, so far she’s the best thing that ever happened in my life. I’m not sure if she felt the same way about the experience… maybe less. But it’s alright. I’m just cherishing the wonderful moments she gave me. I’m blessed!

There are a lot more events like Japan GT, ice-skating competition, reading FHM and Maxim UK edition in a mamak… I’ll just try to write them down in the near future.

“Life is short. Play hard!”

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Party at the Treehouse

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Pictures are done by the Chong brothers. Seriously, I have no idea where should I start talking about this party.

Let’s start with thanking to the host of the party for turning their already cool house into a out-of-this-world party zone. You’ll be greeted with a bunch of people before you start climbing the tree house. And before entering the tree house, you have to take the toll. A liquor shot! Then you’ll be invited to walk this 2 flight of stairs to the main arena. Here you’ll see the DJ spinning and nice sofas for you to chill. Kitchen is also attached to this room. You then again walk another 2 flight of stairs to a short corridor with 3 choices of room.

The smoking room
The game room
The TV room

The smoking room : Here you can choose to go online or climb some steps to a bed on top. Besides that there’s a jaccuzzi included in this portion of the room. But they turned it to a chilled canned-drinks dispenser. (dip sessions, another please)

The game room : Here you are welcome to a Japanese oriented style design with sliding doors and an enclosed room. The TV and PS2 is hooked up avaliable for anyone to start the fun.

The TV room : Here you are entitled with tons of movies for you to choose from to watch. There’s a small veranda where you can take your smoke break. Oh yeah.. the whole place is filled with nice soft beds and linings.

Nuff said, Without a party the place already rocks even though it’s just a hang out session!

A cool place can only go so far if there’s no right crowd, but our mixture of this party consist 50-50 babes & hunks. They are all friendly and nice to hang out with. No barriers and filled with sincerity because everyone brought their best friend. Everyone compliments each other and the party. No one was being a dick or anti-social. Every corner of the house is filled with fun and games and drinks.

After the event. We all tried our best to see if anyone actually brought a camera to take any memories of it. The answer is sadly, none.

Stay tune cause there’s been rumors of Treehouse party 2! Don’t miss it!

“Get out there. Have some vibes flow through your body!”