A beautiful song went unnoticed for half a year until a second release followed by top 100 charts after Christina Aguilera throw in her delicate vocals into the mix. This song brings such powerful emotion about humility, sadness and regret.
Ian Axel & Chad Vaccarino wrote this song when both members were experiencing individual heartbreak. Must be hard to carry a scar this deep whenever this song is performed.
To summarize this hauntingly beautiful song
“When you have exhausted all you have for someone and the outcome still doesn’t favor you. Accept it and give up even when love remains.”
This video makes me wonder. Could this be the ultimate reason to 40 year old virgins? Of course I don’t expect all the woman to be starting to kill off everyone but the video does make a bit of sense. Minus the killing part is ultimately the kind of woman who just can’t stand anything. To set in their own world and ways to even want to accept anything else.
I guess some people are just not cut to be in a relationship at all.
The story is that Alex told Agnes that he will be arriving to KL on Wednesday morning. But in fact he was already in KL the day before.
The grand surprise is that I’ll get Agnes to Mid Valley to rendezvous with Alex for the proposal.
Everything went well until Tuesday morning. Agnes told me around 11:00am that she didn’t want to go Mid Valley with my dad anymore because she will be leaving the office late. I panicked because how else could I trick her into going to Mid Valley?
I told her that it’s my father’s last night in KL and said that my dad would like to bring her out to eat. Plus, my sister is also arriving that night itself.
Luckily she said yes. So everything went well until I arrived at Mid Valley. I told Alex that we’re here and he got a shocked because we arrived 30 minutes earlier. He asked me to stall her and I did.
Often times you still hear some people stand by that phrase. But let me tell you that it is a thing of the past. It did apply very evidently in the era where ladies are treated with respect by gentlemen. But sadly not today.
In the world today, money has become a very real and tangible part of human life. Without money, you can not enjoy the wonders of the earth has to offer. It is something that I strongly disagree but it has repeatedly gave me examples that I could not deny the power of money.
Love and money has long been associated side by side in many different manners. Today, they come together in one package. The more money you have the more love you get. It is just impossible to have love in this century without money. Financial stability is the number one factor a lady would consider before choosing a life partner. So men, if your financial is not stable. Most probably your love life is zilch or only superficial. Money problems are the number one cause of divorce today.
Yes, most would argue that money will only attract the ones who are after your money. True, but what if that lover is sincere and just happened to be rich? Isn’t that not only love but quality love? No lady would want to commit towards someone who couldn’t afford the next meal. And I’m not talking about the next vacation or shopping spree. It’s basic necessities of life.
Sure a kind lady would always say: “It’s fine if he cannot afford a luxurious date. I will be content with his love and what he has got to offer.”
But the same kind lady would also feel blessed and favor a man who could provide a sincere love with luxury. No one complains if their men could afford a bigger diamond even when she knows it is not a necessity.
So place your votes on the poll and leave a comment if you feel otherwise.
“Money cannot buy love and love cannot buy money, but money increases the chances of love and love decreases the need for money.”
I’ve written a few post about amazing marriage proposal’s here and here.
Ryan and Carlie’s engagement is both cute and heart stopping at the same time.
Ryan took a two person plane out for a spin and took some great pictures of themselves and the view. Moments later he decided to fake that the plane is out of control. He asked Carlie to read out the emergency check list for him and to her surprise it is actually his proposal. I don’t wanna spoil too much of the details here, go ahead, press play!
Eating durian makes me crazy happy. This effect doesn’t only apply to me. My friends whom I ate with feels the same too. I think scientist should conduct some experiment on the properties of durian that makes us happy when we eat it.
So why did I say “Durian lovers must wed durian lovers’?
You being a durian lover, imagine this:
· Imagine not being able to enjoy durian together for dinner.
· Think about how much he/she hates it when you bring them home and you have to eat em’ outside and wash thoroughly before you go back in the house.
· He/she bans you from getting near them after eating durian.
· The kids would most probably be psycho by them not to eat durian too because it’s bad.
I really couldn’t imagine a lifetime partner like this. I guess being a durian lover is a mandatory criteria when it comes to choosing a wife for me. I don’t think it’s even possible to convert someone who dislikes durian to start loving it. With durian, it’s either you love it or dislike it from the beginning. There are no converts.
I shall just camp at SS2 durian buffet and scout for a potential suitor. It would eliminate the chances of me dating someone who dislike durians.
You may be single or attached or heart-broken or trying to recover from a sour relationship as you’re reading this. But what you’re going to read here applies to everyone.
The only time you deserve to love and be loved in return is when you know what you’re doing with your life. True love isn’t just about the looks or the money. That is as shallow as any relationship can get. You might even argue with me that there are elements like being truthful, being earnest, being forgiving, being caring and all but true love only happens when you learn how to respect and admire the unique individual for who they are genuinely and what they do best with their life.
No one, and I mean no one would be truly in love with a person who beg for love and forgiveness. That is just loving out of sympathy, nothing more and nothing less. The day you have learn how to focus your energy in doing what you do best is the day everyone would see it and admire you for who you are. Humans can be blinded by love but we are no fool in recognizing what lies beneath that mask. We just choose to have faith and hope even though we could spot the ill patterns from experience. This will surely one day exhaust itself and he/she will wake up one day and realize why am I still sticking to this joker with multiple mask for? Who was I loving all these while?
So don’t waste your time chasing for love and companionship if you can’t focus on yourself individually. You don’t deserve love and be loved in return if you can’t be the best you can be in this life time. Go that extra mile and gain that respect and admiration and soon enough you’ll realize that you not only love yourself more, you are also a truly happy person. This will then make you worthy of loving someone and be loved in return.
“You don’t deserve love if you can’t focus on yourself. The day you focus on yourself is the day everyone would respect, admire and love you for what you do best with your life.”
I want you to unwind back to your first love. Who was him/her? It felt perfect didn’t it? It feels 100% because everything was for the very first time. There was nothing, no one else to compare it with. But what if the first love didn’t worked out as planned? You had to pick up a new love. The soul tie that was formed previously with your first love has to be cut. Could it be cut completely, or will there always be a thin line holding each others heart? (Admit if you will that there will always be a little soft spot for the first love as kryptonites are to Superman.)
Below are 2 theories on loving better or worst after a complete clean breakup.
Because the soul ties are not completely cut away from the first love, therefore we are not able to form complete soul ties with the next partnership. The second love could only experience 90% of what’s left from the first love because the remaining 10% is forever with the first love. I could not imagine what’s gonna happen for the remaining lovers if the second or third one fails. The more we love the more soul ties we form and the less is given because now the love of 100% is divided.
Even with the soul ties attached to the first love. We are able to love more. This is because our hearts heal, what doesn’t kill us only makes us stronger. And because it heals, we are able to give a complete 100% or 110%. The more we have loved the better we are at understanding ourselves and our partners. Our hearts have infinite love if only you choose to unlock it. And with each new lover, our love will always flow like a river endlessly to a new found love because that’s where hope is found.
We always love better. Even when we are afraid of getting hurt again in a second relationship. The reserved heart will open up the moment we realize our lover is giving their all sincerely. All doubts will be lifted and you will choose again to love with all you have and even more because our hearts do heal.
“Our hearts have infinite love if only you choose to unlock it.”